The Importance of Reading the Bible to Your Child.

The Importance of Reading the Bible to Your Children.

I was raised in a Christian family. I heard the name of God from an early age but my family did not practice Christianity. My mother went to church from time to time when I was really young but usually I attended with my grandmother. As I grew older she went less and less and so did I. I have no memories of my father coming along with me.
I won my first Bible at an Easter egg hunt at my grandmother’s church and I still have it today. When I tried to read it as a child it was confusing and the story line was difficult to follow. I set it on a shelf and
drifted away from God for some time.

I was taught about a condemning God. Many times in Bible study I was told if I was bad I would go to hell. I will not say that is inaccurate but let’s remember to teach our children the importance of repentance and forgiveness and how to do it. That is one of God’s greatest aspects that the Bible speaks of often. Don’t forget to explain that we all fall short and these fleshy bodies have a lot of sinful desires. Shame and embarrassment should not weigh so heavily that they fear it is too much for God himself. Teach them to lay their burdens at His feet and ask for forgiveness. When struggling with addiction or temptation, pray for strength and guidance. God will never tempt someone beyond their limit and will always give a way out.


It is our job as parents to take the Bible and make it digestible for our children. We must start at a young age and continue to teach at any given opportunity. If a child sees a parent reading a Bible they will too. If a parent reads the Bible to them they will gain better understanding and be able to ask questions along the way. Going to church and sitting in a pew is not enough to light a fire for God  in our children’s hearts. We must play an active role and help kindle that fire while they are young and well into adulthood. We must not rely only on a  preacher to teach us the Bible, we must read it for ourselves also.

Where would I be today if my parents would have shown more initiative? How much bigger would my knowledge base be if I had examples to follow. Would I have a deeper understanding if I did have that particular head start? I am not downing or judging my parents, I am sure they did this best they could, just as I am trying to do today. Having children causes internal searching as we desire to provide better for our children. We must heal ourselves to no longer repeat the undesired behavior.
I am determined to teach my children better than I was taught.

I do Bible study weekly consisting of worksheets and reading from the Bible. We pray together and worship together. I noticed one day my son had little understanding of how to look up Bible verses. He knew there were chapters and verses but struggled to find any particular one when asked. I realized I had always provided that information and had created a gap in his comprehension. I adjusted our study activities and he has grown because of it.

I try to make study time fun and engaging especially for the younger ones. Crafts, mazes, coloring pages, counting, odd one out, find the differences and word searches are great ways to keep lessons engaging. I take the time to read aloud the word of God hoping I can hardwire His internal monologue into their brains. A quick web search can bring up thousands of free printable worksheets that suit children at all stages of learning. I use Trueway Kids for Bible study lessons but there are hundreds of others. Let’s give our children a head start. Let’s give them the armor of God to wear with confidence and knowledge to assist them their whole life. Let’s implant the word of God into their minds so it’s louder than the wickedness of the world. Prepare them for the battles and struggles before then. Only God can be with them when no one else can.

Writing is a Waste of Time

Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

  Writing is a waste of time. That is what I told myself for 30+ years. I viewed it almost like a childish thing I should have put away a long time ago. Or rather, a toddler’s craft that is cute but has no real use or function. I would sit down, heavy heart and mind, and pour my soul onto the paper. Later on I would pick that same paper up and shame and embarrassment wouldn’t even allow me to read it. I would look at it and my mind refused to recognize the letters as words. Paudhtofhtskfbtorjjrdbdjfjjfb fkfjgjfofofbfkfjdbdbfjf fkfbfjfjfgbffkfnpajbfri jfjfahdjorbrhdhthjtotbkwlzbfogn is all I could see. It would result in another piece of work going into the trash, not even worthy enough to keep.

  Along came the digital era and somehow some of my writing made it to digital form. Although, still shoved into some random documents folder and forgotten about. At some point I ran up on a poem that I had written almost ten years prior. In fact, I shared that poem in my blog just a few days ago, it’s titled His Tiny Hands. I read the poem, thoroughly enjoying the flow and memories it brought of when my son was a little baby. I wondered who the author could be. I was shocked to see my name at the end of the rhymes.

  I began to wonder if others managed to escape the chopping block and started to search the crevasses of forgotten folders.  I found a handful of complete poems along with bits and pieces of others. The more I read the more foolish I felt for ever selling myself short. Sure, I’m no magic word master that’s going to go down in history for the great words ever written. But I am a writer and that’s good enough for me.

   I was told it would be a good move to create an author website to promote my debut novel. Following a clueless Google search I found myself here at word press. I created my page just under two weeks ago and I am astonished at the community I have stumbled on to. I am not a big fan of social media so I must say this platform is refreshing and a blessing from God. Not only can I present my novel, but just as importantly, I now have a friendly environment to share all of my writings. To add a double layer of excitement, I can also share daily Bible studies to proclaim the glory of God to readers all around the world! How awesome is that!?

  A phase in my life that has been difficult to say goodbye to is my self doubting phase. Gone are the days I throw stuff away. Goodbye to the days I ridicule myself for writing. Hello to a bright and exciting future of blogging. Hello to allowing myself the pleasure to write freely.

  I do not have the words to express how grateful and excited I am for my future writing journey. I am so grateful for the likes, comments, and  subscribers I have thus far and am thrilled to have every reader along for the ride. I don’t know where this blog will take me, but I know I will have a pencil and notebook in my hand.

Thank you for reading and have a blessed day.

God, Birth, Time and Relativity

I was watching TV with my husband last night and came across a clip of this fascinating video. This morning I began the search to find the original video and poster. I was incredibly annoyed to find I could only view it on TikTok. After convincing myself to finally download the infamous app I was able to retrieve the full clip.

I have not watched any more of this gentleman’s videos but I plan to do so soon. He also has a YouTube channel called Dakala Day. I love his perspective on birth and the passage of time. It makes a lot of sense the way he explains it, especially the part about relativity.  I hope everyone enjoys it as much as I did.  I am limited to 5 minutes of video and the original video is just over ten minutes. I cut it just under the 5 minute mark and posted in two videos.  Hope you enjoy! For those that do have TikTok here is the original link https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2utudnS/

Daily Bible Study #6

And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.
Colossians 3:15 KJV
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Before I get started on the chapter I want to thank everyone who has been with me on this short journey thus far. I wasn’t sure how the community would respond to a daily post such as this but I am pleased with the outcome. Thanks for the likes and comments and the encouragement to continue. I look forward to studying the Bible with you.

Colossians 3

3:1 If ye then be risen with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.
3:2 Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.

3:3 For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.

3:4 When Christ, who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.

3:5 Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:

3:6 For which things’ sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience:

3:7 In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them.

3:8 But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.

3:9 Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;

3:10 And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:

3:11 Where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all, and in all.

3:12 Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;

3:13 Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.

3:14 And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.

3:15 And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful.
3:16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.

3:17 And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.

3:18 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

3:20 Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.

3:21 Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

3:22 Servants, obey in all things your masters according to the flesh; not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but in singleness of heart, fearing God:

3:23 And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;

3:24 Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.

3:25 But he that doeth wrong shall receive for the wrong which he hath done: and there is no respect of persons.

Below is a video which covers Colossians 3.15 and previous verses.

The Balancing Act of Over Loving


The balancing act of over loving

I grew up in a low income family. Money was tight and luxuries were things you only saw on TV. Birthdays and Christmas were special occasions but never delivered presents like other children talked about at school. I always had food, a roof over my head, and clothes on my back. In my parents’ opinion I had enough and I cannot say I disagree with that observation.

However, I worked hard to rise above that, and I stand today, better off than I was. My children want for nothing and they have never seen the struggles I endured as a child. They have countless snacks in the kitchen to choose from and clothes bursting from their closets. They have multiple pairs of shoes to wear and an electronic device around every corner. The stuffed animals take over their rooms to the point that the only place left to hang them is on the walls. Each time a new toy was presented, it  brought huge smiles and polite thank yous.

All sounds picture perfect right? Wrong! Now I am faced with the dilemma of, if I spoil my child they will develop a sense of entitlement and be awful human beings. How is this fair? I want to shower my children with material things and allow them to enjoy all the things I could not. I dreamed of providing my children with a better childhood than I had, and am finally able to provide that kind of lifestyle. How can that be damaging?  Late one night, after the kids had gone to sleep and the house was calm, I pondered just that. How do I spoil my children without having a negative impact on their development?

Then I realized, if you don’t have hard times, you cannot truly appreciate the good. If you do not struggle from time to time, you fail to see when times are easy. It is under the pressure of sadness that you reminisce on just how good it once was. If all you know is good times, the first little disaster could be detrimental. How can a child know how to deal with chaos if they have never seen it?

The epiphany changed my way of thinking and gave me a completely different perspective. My childhood may have been tough but my experiences taught me a lot and  empowered me to provide better for my children. Not better material possessions but better everything else. Better communication, better problem solving, a more stable environment, emotional regulation, and a safe place to talk. More quality time together, more late night movies, more understanding and empathy.

I realized I was so busy trying to fill the void with earthly things, I failed to notice what matters the most, to raise Christ-centered, confident, morally guided, independent children who are capable of making informed decisions. My children will not remember the presents they received for their 12th birthday, but they will remember the skills and techniques I teach them to navigate the world.  The knowledge I share with them essentially becomes the basis for every decision they will ever make in their entire life.

I will not always be here but my words will echo in their minds forever and be passed on for generations. I want those words to ring louder than any doubt that may be in their mind and last longer than any troubled times. I want my children to value time well spent with an aging relative or the kindness of helping someone that they could never repay the favor. I want them to experience the joy of giving to a needy person and how a simple act of kindness can change a person’s whole week. I want them to stand tall on their beliefs and never back down from a challenge.  I want them to know that material things rot and fade away but memories and knowledge last forever. I want them to put God first and live life honoring Him, I know all else will follow.

Since then, my focus has changed drastically. Now I strive to equip my children with the knowledge and resources they need to survive in this ruthless world. I teach them how to grow their own food, how to manage money, how to maintain a bank account, how to take responsibility for their actions and how to live a Godly life. I teach them useful skills that traditional schools never speak of and the best way I have found is to lead by example. We are the first line of defense for our children but they also must fight for themselves. The question is are we sending them to battle clothed with the armor of God and a mighty sword in their hands? Or are we sending them naked and armed with butter knives? The choice is ours as parents to make but theirs to reap, choose wisely.
 

Who would I be if I could be anyone else for a day.

If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?

If I could be someone else for a day I would choose to be my husband. I would like to be him so I could truly see myself from his perspective. I am told often that I do not see how beautiful I am or just how amazing I am at being  a mother. I think if I could see from his eyes I could see what all the fuss is about. I would also see the world from his view and be able to better understand his thoughts and emotions. Doing so would cultivate a deeper and more meaningful connection. How amazing it would be to see the world through my husband’s point of view.

Daily Bible Study #5

Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding.

Isaiah 40:28 KJV

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Isaiah 40 KJV

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Isaiah 40

1 Comfort ye, comfort ye my people, saith your God.
2 Speak ye comfortably to Jerusalem, and cry unto her, that her warfare is accomplished, that her iniquity is pardoned: for she hath received of the LORD’S hand double for all her sins.
3 The voice of him that crieth in the wilderness, Prepare ye the way of the LORD, make straight in the desert a highway for our God.
4 Every valley shall be exalted, and every mountain and hill shall be made low: and the crooked shall be made straight, and the rough places plain:
5 And the glory of the LORD shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together: for the mouth of the LORD hath spoken it.
6 The voice said, Cry. And he said, What shall I cry? All flesh is grass, and all the goodliness thereof is as the flower of the field:
7 The grass withereth, the flower fadeth: because the spirit of the LORD bloweth upon it: surely the people is grass.
8 The grass withereth, the flower fadeth: but the word of our God shall stand for ever.
9 O Zion, that bringest good tidings, get thee up into the high mountain; O Jerusalem, that bringest good tidings, lift up thy voice with strength; lift it up, be not afraid; say unto the cities of Judah, Behold your God!
10 Behold, the Lord GOD will come with strong hand, and his arm shall rule for him: behold, his reward is with him, and his work before him.
11 He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those that are with young.
12 Who hath measured the waters in the hollow of his hand, and meted out heaven with the span, and comprehended the dust of the earth in a measure, and weighed the mountains in scales, and the hills in a balance?
13 Who hath directed the Spirit of the LORD, or being his counsellor hath taught him?
14 With whom took he counsel, and who instructed him, and taught him in the path of judgment, and taught him knowledge, and shewed to him the way of understanding?
15 Behold, the nations are as a drop of a bucket, and are counted as the small dust of the balance: behold, he taketh up the isles as a very little thing.
16 And Lebanon is not sufficient to burn, nor the beasts thereof sufficient for a burnt offering.
17 All nations before him are as nothing; and they are counted to him less than nothing, and vanity.
18 To whom then will ye liken God? or what likeness will ye compare unto him?
19 The workman melteth a graven image, and the goldsmith spreadeth it over with gold, and casteth silver chains.
20 He that is so impoverished that he hath no oblation chooseth a tree that will not rot; he seeketh unto him a cunning workman to prepare a graven image, that shall not be moved.
21 Have ye not known? have ye not heard? hath it not been told you from the beginning? have ye not understood from the foundations of the earth?
22 It is he that sitteth upon the circle of the earth, and the inhabitants thereof are as grasshoppers; that stretcheth out the heavens as a curtain, and spreadeth them out as a tent to dwell in:
23 That bringeth the princes to nothing; he maketh the judges of the earth as vanity.
24 Yea, they shall not be planted; yea, they shall not be sown: yea, their stock shall not take root in the earth: and he shall also blow upon them, and they shall wither, and the whirlwind shall take them away as stubble.
25 To whom then will ye liken me, or shall I be equal? saith the Holy One.
26 Lift up your eyes on high, and behold who hath created these things, that bringeth out their host by number: he calleth them all by names by the greatness of his might, for that he is strong in power; not one faileth.
27 Why sayest thou, O Jacob, and speakest, O Israel, My way is hid from the LORD, and my judgment is passed over from my God?
28 Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding.
29 He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.
30 Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall:
31 But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.

Daily Bible Study #4

And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

Galatians 6:9 KJV

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Galatians 6 KJV

I’ll6 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.

2 Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.

3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.

4 But let every man prove his own work, and then shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another.

5 For every man shall bear his own burden.

6 Let him that is taught in the word communicate unto him that teacheth in all good things.

7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

10 As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.

11 Ye see how large a letter I have written unto you with mine own hand.

12 As many as desire to make a fair shew in the flesh, they constrain you to be circumcised; only lest they should suffer persecution for the cross of Christ.

13 For neither they themselves who are circumcised keep the law; but desire to have you circumcised, that they may glory in your flesh.

14 But God forbid that I should glory, save in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world is crucified unto me, and I unto the world.

15 For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision, but a new creature.

16 And as many as walk according to this rule, peace be on them, and mercy, and upon the Israel of God.

17 From henceforth let no man trouble me: for I bear in my body the marks of the Lord Jesus.

18 Brethren, the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.

The Name of Jesus

I heard the name Jesus when I was a child
I was taught of the man who died on the cross for me

Still yet I struggled with the ways of the world and some choices I still wear the shame.

God my father, you taught me and something inside always sought thee,
Never straying too far away

When my tongue can’t find the words.
I find my heart speaks for me.
Pouring my burdens out to you.
Bringing them at your feet.

I don’t have a perfect story. I will always fall short of your glory. Forever your humble servant. Jesus you always go before me  making a way.

Lord thank you for your blessings. And always teaching me lessons. You’ve shined a light through the darkness guiding my way.

Daily Bible Study #3

And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.

Acts 2:21 KJV

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Acts 2 KJV

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1 And when the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were all with one accord in one place.
2 And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind, and it filled all the house where they were sitting.
3 And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them.
4 And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.
5 And there were dwelling at Jerusalem Jews, devout men, out of every nation under heaven.
6 Now when this was noised abroad, the multitude came together, and were confounded, because that every man heard them speak in his own language.
7 And they were all amazed and marvelled, saying one to another, Behold, are not all these which speak Galilaeans?
8 And how hear we every man in our own tongue, wherein we were born?
9 Parthians, and Medes, and Elamites, and the dwellers in Mesopotamia, and in Judaea, and Cappadocia, in Pontus, and Asia,
10 Phrygia, and Pamphylia, in Egypt, and in the parts of Libya about Cyrene, and strangers of Rome, Jews and proselytes,
11 Cretes and Arabians, we do hear them speak in our tongues the wonderful works of God.
12 And they were all amazed, and were in doubt, saying one to another, What meaneth this?
13 Others mocking said, These men are full of new wine.
14 But Peter, standing up with the eleven, lifted up his voice, and said unto them, Ye men of Judaea, and all ye that dwell at Jerusalem, be this known unto you, and hearken to my words:
15 For these are not drunken, as ye suppose, seeing it is but the third hour of the day.
16 But this is that which was spoken by the prophet Joel;
17 And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams:
18 And on my servants and on my handmaidens I will pour out in those days of my Spirit; and they shall prophesy:
19 And I will shew wonders in heaven above, and signs in the earth beneath; blood, and fire, and vapour of smoke:
20 The sun shall be turned into darkness, and the moon into blood, before that great and notable day of the Lord come:
21 And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.
22 Ye men of Israel, hear these words; Jesus of Nazareth, a man approved of God among you by miracles and wonders and signs, which God did by him in the midst of you, as ye yourselves also know:
23 Him, being delivered by the determinate counsel and foreknowledge of God, ye have taken, and by wicked hands have crucified and slain:
24 Whom God hath raised up, having loosed the pains of death: because it was not possible that he should be holden of it.
25 For David speaketh concerning him, I foresaw the Lord always before my face, for he is on my right hand, that I should not be moved:
26 Therefore did my heart rejoice, and my tongue was glad; moreover also my flesh shall rest in hope:
27 Because thou wilt not leave my soul in hell, neither wilt thou suffer thine Holy One to see corruption.
28 Thou hast made known to me the ways of life; thou shalt make me full of joy with thy countenance.
29 Men and brethren, let me freely speak unto you of the patriarch David, that he is both dead and buried, and his sepulchre is with us unto this day.
30 Therefore being a prophet, and knowing that God had sworn with an oath to him, that of the fruit of his loins, according to the flesh, he would raise up Christ to sit on his throne;
31 He seeing this before spake of the resurrection of Christ, that his soul was not left in hell, neither his flesh did see corruption.
32 This Jesus hath God raised up, whereof we all are witnesses.
33 Therefore being by the right hand of God exalted, and having received of the Father the promise of the Holy Ghost, he hath shed forth this, which ye now see and hear.
34 For David is not ascended into the heavens: but he saith himself, The LORD said unto my Lord, Sit thou on my right hand,
35 Until I make thy foes thy footstool.
36 Therefore let all the house of Israel know assuredly, that God hath made that same Jesus, whom ye have crucified, both Lord and Christ.
37 Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall we do?
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
39 For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call.
40 And with many other words did he testify and exhort, saying, Save yourselves from this untoward generation.
41 Then they that gladly received his word were baptized: and the same day there were added unto them about three thousand souls.
42 And they continued stedfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.
43 And fear came upon every soul: and many wonders and signs were done by the apostles.
44 And all that believed were together, and had all things common;
45 And sold their possessions and goods, and parted them to all men, as every man had need.
46 And they, continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from house to house, did eat their meat with gladness and singleness of heart,
47 Praising God, and having favour with all the people. And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved.

Heather Congrove

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